Believe it or not, there are quite a few things you can learn from strippers. They are not as you probably thought dance moves and the art of lap dancing. Things a girl could learn from a stripper are far deeper and more interesting than that.
Strippers are a fascination for every man. Some don’t visit strip club on regular basis but they will go there if they can. You can use some of these advises to enhance your love life with your partner. This way the monogamy that you two are trapped in can be refreshed from time to time, without involvement of third person and possible end to your relationship.
- Make his and your fantasies known. Men fantasize a lot, maybe even more than women. Strip clubs are sort of a place where part of their fantasies can come near fulfilment. Find out about his fantasies, and try to complete some of them. He will forget about going out to a strip bar after that.
- Make a few days weekly all about your partner. Give him few days that are all about him, talk less and let him have what he wants. Strippers talk little and they work a lot, you should try to follow that thinking at least one or two days weekly.
- Change yourself regularly in order to keep him interested and to avoid same old appearance being all he sees of you. Variety is what every man wants. By changing your appearance by different clothes different hair color and style you will satisfy that part of his desire.
- Make him see that you are there for him. Show him that you love him, that he is an important part of your life and thus you show him that you are an important part of his life too.
- Don’t let him get what he wants easily. Play with him sometimes, let him know that he has to work for what he wants. This means that you should tease him from time to time, showing him what he could gain if he could try a bit more, just like strippers gradually take of their clothes while men give dollar after dollar for that. Don’t make these games last for too long for he will lose interest if you prolong it.
- Don’t let him initiate and ask for sex every time. Sometimes be aggressive and attack him as soon as he steps with his feet into the house. Aggression will show him that you are interested in something more than just a mundane love making.
- Don’t leave him sexually unsatisfied for long periods of time, it can backfire. Neglecting him sexually might cause him to feel revulsion from you, even though you had no such thing in mind. Give a man his portion of sex regularly, it is unfair to let him be dry for too long. If you keep that for longer and longer periods of time, you will notice him leaving for strip bars on regular basis. And what is even worse he could go one step further and find another woman for money or not, just to satisfy his basic sexual needs.